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Part of me wishes I’d never made this NY resolution…

My New Year’s resolution this year is going to be tough.

Three days in and I’m already wondering if this was a mistake. I mean, why would any thinking girl commit to NOT buying a new dress, new jeans, a new top for that friend’s birthday party – not buying a single item of new clothing for an entire year?

2017 is the year I’ve decided to refrain from buying any brand-spanking-new clothes. Any item of clothing accumulated in the next 12 months will come from op shops, markets, Gumtree, those Facebook pages you sell your old stuff on – or the wardrobes of friends who take pity on me! Underwear excluded. Underwear definitely excluded.

About 85% of textiles end up in land fill; clothing is the second-largest source of pollution, after oil. We are a throw-away society. Fashion manufacturers are churning out new outfits as if they are everyday consumables like milk, toothpaste and toilet paper to keep up with our appetites for the trendiest, most ‘it’ clothing. Most of it is poor quality and we put up with it because it’s also affordable. The fashion will change in a few seasons anyway, we reason.

I was speaking at an event recently and got talking to a friend. She has her own clothing brand called Rosery Apparel: every item of clothing she produces is made from re-purposed fabric (sheet, curtains, table cloths…) found at op shops and markets. Her dresses are feminine, whimsical and wonderfully vintage.

But in our brief chat I was reminded of her philosophy adopted to her own wardrobe: to purchase only pre-loved clothing.

I could do that, I thought.
No you couldn’t, was the inner rebuttal.
It could be fun!
Imagine no retail therapy perusing the racks of your favourite fashion shops, was the counter argument.

It was too late, though. The idea had sprouted and it only continued to grow and bud and flourish after that day.

I have some allies in this endeavour. My sister-in-law and mother-in-law are doing the same. And while we joke about foregoing a woman’s prerogative to shop till she drops… I’m actually looking forward to the challenge. It’s an adventure!

And I fully acknowledge that the three of us are not about to change the world’s textile landfill issues with this one measly little NY resolution, but I do hope to alter my ingrained throw-away notions, to adopt a more thoughtful and measured approach to how I spend and dress.

There are other ways of arriving at that place, of course. Buying ethical brands, for example. Buying high quality clothing in classic styles and less quantity. Taking time to repair and repurpose articles of clothing.

I’m a veteran op-shopper. A favourite pastime is spending an hour at a local thrift shop, rifling through coat hangers heavy with yesterday’s fashions. One person’s ‘daggy’ is another person’s ‘vogue’! If I walk away with a single garment, it’s a successful trip.

I love fashion, love wearing clothes that suit me, love testing the latest trends against my skin. But to every indulgence there is a cost. The cost of this particular frivolity is not only my wallet, but the manufacturer’s chain: the people at the bottom rungs weaving the fabric, dying it, cutting it, stitching it. The cost is also in the earth, the way it is treated when our refuse is offloaded.

So, we attempt to slow down those cogs and foster a wide-eyed awareness of our shopping habits and their ramifications.

What do you say – wanna join us?
Otherwise, wish us luck!

“The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
1 Samuel 16:7

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I am a writer, mother, wife and believer in a reality bigger than my own. I love exploring the small epiphanies of life. Nothing is humdrum. Every moment is charged with opportunity, each one mixing its ideas with the ink in my pen. You call it alchemy, I call it God.

4 Comments

  1. Hi Claire,
    Recently we have been, a couple of times, to Lifeline to drop off some unwanted items – excess luggage, books and appliances. When we we there a few days ago, my wife picked up, amongst other things, a pair of leather boots in excellent condition that fit well for only $5. These would have been well over $100 in a shoe shop. It shows that you can pick up some really good bargains in these places.

    Thanks Claire and Happy New Year.

    • It makes shopping an adventure and a challenge doesn’t it?! And such a victory to find something like your wife’s boots 🙂
      Thanks Sid – Happy New Year to you and yours also 🙂

  2. Yes, I wish you luck and I will join you but I must admit I have been doing this for a long time firstly out of necessity and then out of habit. I love it when I wear a dress that is years old and get complimented on it. Or, when I wore a cheap little black dress for a work dinner where the guests were from overseas, rich clients who were talking about their shopping experiences on Rodeo Drive. I loved it when one of them said she had been looking for a simple black dress like mine, could not find one and had to have it ‘tailor made’! She was wearing it adorned with a real diamond brooch, and said it (the dress) had cost her an arm and a leg. Mine was from Tarjei, I said jokingly and I am sure she thought I was referring to some posh boutique because she asked if it was overseas! Mind you, the people were lovely but they had no idea how the other half live.
    I still have the dress which no longer fits but I am sure my daughter will wear it one day when she puts on a little weight like her mother.
    Wishing you love and happiness in 2017

    • Haha! That’s an awesome story, love it! I have some of my own like that too. I got the most gorgeous camel coloured jacket recently – like a trench but more glamorous. I was op shopping on my birthday (cos it’s one of my fav things to do!) and it felt like such a find… then to go to the counter and discover it was half price day for yellow tickets – the colour of the ticket on my jacket, making it about $10! I’ve had so many comments and I LOVE telling people it was $10 from an op shop 😉 Us savvy spenders hey!
      Much love to you also, fellow op-shopper!

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